The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men
There’sanotherthingthatcansteponpeople’stailsandputthekiboshon
sexualexploration:thethoughtthattheremightbesomethingwrongwithus
sexually.thatwe’renotnormal.Forasocietythatisasfascinatedwithsexaswe
are,wecertainlyhaveafunnywayofshowingit;it’slikewehavetoexpressas
muchdisapprovalasnecessarytoprovewe’renottoopervy,andthenwecanget
downtowatchingthepervyporn.We’llneverknowhowmanypeoplehave
beendeniedthesexlifeandidentitythatwouldhavemadethemhappybecause
theycouldn’tgetoverthisfence,buthere,too,we’reluckythatViolethas
steppedup.Herlight,yetinformative,tonemakesitseempossiblethatthissexy
funisaccessibletous,too,notjustthosepeople.Infact,intheworldofSan
Franciscosexed,thereisaneducationalmodelthatguidesuswhenwesitdown
towriteorstanduptoteach:It’scalledPLISSIT,anditiswhatsextherapistsare
taughttoofferyouifyoursexlifeissostuckorfraughtthatyourequiretheir
helpfulservices.TheyknowthatyouneedPermission,LimitedInformation,and
SpecificSuggestions(andonlypossiblyIntensiveTherapy),whichiswhyViolet
appearsheretoointheroleofyourpermission-giver,teacher,andcoachfor
fantasyexploration.Asshutdownasmanyofushavebeenaboutourdesirefor
wide-ranginginformationandexperience,itisavitalroleindeed.